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Co-parenting mistakes to avoid

On Behalf of | Jan 10, 2022 | Child Custody |

If you’re going through a divorce, one of the most important decisions you’ll need to make concerns custody. One option, co-parenting, may have a positive impact on your child’s well-being and can help reduce conflict. Unfortunately, there are a lot of common mistakes that can arise during this time.

Weaponizing the children

This includes using them as messengers, trying to get them to take sides, or dictating what they can and cannot say about the other parent. Not only does this create a lot of stress and tension for your child but it can also have long-term negative consequences. It may not seem like it at the time, but these conversations can really damage their relationship with one or both of you and even lead to them having trust issues later on in life.

Failing to communicate

Communication is key in any relationship, and it’s especially important when you’re co-parenting. If you’re not able to talk openly and honestly with your ex about things, like schedules, changes, or problems, it can lead to a lot of misunderstandings and conflict. Try to schedule regular check-ins so that you can discuss child-related issues, rather than letting them fester and create unnecessary tension.

Disregarding the child’s schedule or child custody orders

One of the best things about co-parenting is that you can both share the responsibility of taking care of your child. However, this only works if you’re both on the same page and respecting each other’s time commitments. Failing to do so can result in one parent feeling burdened or taken advantage of, which can only lead to further conflict.

Also, if there’s a child custody order in place, it is important that you follow the guidelines. A child custody order makes sure that both parents are taking responsibility for their share of care and responsibilities. It is crucial to comply with these orders; failing to do so can result in contempt charges and other legal penalties.

Divorce and co-parenting can be difficult, but it’s important to avoid making these common mistakes. By following the tips above, you can help ensure that your child has a smooth and stress-free transition after you part ways with your partner.

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